HEALING THE BROKEN HEARTED

The Holy Spirit is real and He moves and guides God's children in the way that they should go.
I thank the Lord this day for His Mercy and His Grace and for helping me to deliver and administer His comfort to those who are unhappy.

Did you know that the LORD came so that you wouldn't have to be offended at every comment that is made or every look that is given.
Jesus came to teach us how to believe on Him and not how we feel or what we perceive.

Praise God!
Let's set the captives free this morning.
With the Word and not with the latest quotes from Hollywood.
Amen.

So Facebook is a public open forum, a social site and it connects many people from all walks of life. I have been blessed to be on the network with many of my brothers and sisters in Christ and as I am led I comment.

Recently one of my beautiful sisters in Christ posted 3 questions that asked:
1.Why it seems so many people hate to see others happy or resent them for having things that they don't?

God wants to show you how to stop resenting things because things are just that, things.
All things will rust and perish.

2. Why do so many people want to feel that they are better off than you?

I can't profess to say that I know how other people feel unless they tell me directly, but people do by their actions and words express them selves.


3. Why can't people do them and let her do her?

No one has the power to stop you from doing you but you and how you feel about you.

These words are not to address my sister In Christ who had the questions alone, they are to help the unhappy people in the world who may be struggling with these feelings.

Resentment
Envy
Jealousy

You can do you.
The thing that stops us from doing us is when we begin to spend thought life meditating on this type of stuff.
People have no power to stop you from doing you, that is all in your hands.

In Christ, it now becomes being In Him.

I asked questions like this myself before based on what I was feeling, but people don't make me feel that way, I make me feel that way.
So because I don't know it all and I am proud to say that I received a Word of encouragement and ministry.
Pastor George Davis administer the Word about the questions that I had at the last singles conference.

Now I can take what Pastor Davis said and incorporate it into my way of being or I can be offended at what he said and stay stuck in this area.
Remember I'm talking to those who are struggling with resentment today.

Many of the people who see this blog may be that person in those questions above and what we want to do is get the root of where the attitude is coming from because God's Word will clear it up.

I have been on line for a couple of years writing what the Lord places on my heart and during that time many people have believed that I am talking directly to them.
I want you to know if this doesn't pertain to you, it ain't about you.

If this an area that you are dealing with, yeah God is speaking to you.

You don't want someone merely agreeing with you all of the time and telling you that you are right just because.
Love is going to give you what you need to grow up out of that.
My husband has to do that for me, Kevin has to ask me. "Is it that I want my way or the right way which is God's way?"

Resentment always stems out of a feeling.
How you feel about your self.

What we perceive may not be what it is.
What you feel is not something that you have to hold on to.
God has given us the ability through Christ to take in to captivity every thought, to cast down imaginations.

Let the Lord help you be free this day.
The first thing that we want to do is look at what the Word says and get our answers from Him.

Genesis 3:6
... And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her, and he did eat.

It was pleasant to the eyes...
It looked good, that doesn't mean that it is good.

It's so easy for us as humans to begin to admire what looks and appears successful on the surface.
To the naked eye a woman dressed in a Chanel suit with her hair and nails done driving a Mercedes with the suburban address, looks successful, but she is actually broke and living from paycheck to paycheck.

You can be legitimately wealthy and well educated and achieve note but you can also be doing drugs, alcohol, and other people besides your spouse.

Yet so many people have the appearance of being something that they are not.
I'm not talking about any certain folks, condemning or judging them so don't get your panties in a bunch.
I am making a point.

You know some folk who got some stuff that the Trumps don't have and they couldn't pay their way out of a traffic ticket.

I'm gonna share something that Bishop shared with us a long time ago and it helped me to stop wondering about and caring about what someone else had.

Bishop has counseled professional athletes and men and women from every economic background and social status and he said, many times what you are jealous of is someone's bill and their headache.
It's what is keeping them up at night and driving them to drink trying to hustle to keep it.
You envy a house note, a car note, a overdrawn charge card, and the stress that they carry behind keeping up appearances.

Let me help you.
Stop losing sleep and wasting thought life on what someone else appears to have or what they think about you in your hoopty or your Dots outfit.

Child I don't care, I have 3 pair of black pants one pair has stripes on them and the other two don't.

I will wash those suckers and rotate and wear them puppies all year and I have been doing it for 5 years and I could care less who knows.

Even those who have things legitimately and debt free, that means that if Jesus Christ is your Lord you can have the same or even more.

Please don't envy because it rots the bones, it makes your heart sick and it's a tool of hell.
It has a purpose and that purpose is to eat you up from the inside out.

What you don't want to do is ever begin to think of your self more highly than you ought to.
The LORD teaches us to stay humble.
It's easy for us begin to think that we have achieved something on a measure that is greater than anyone ever could measure up to. And we begin to compare our selves with other folks.

It is never how far you can go past another person because God doesn't look at us with the eyes of what we have accomplished, He looks at us with the eyes of what His Son accomplished.

Never compare your self to me or any other woman because it is so not about us against each other.
I will never compare my self to another woman because I know that it's not about what she has done but what Jesus has done and what He will do in a woman with that revelation.

To us if all appearances are that they faithfully attend church and are involved and social, we believe that they know what the Word of God says and that they have made it their first and final authority and are operating in complete perfection.

But we know that the perfecting saints, the mature saints are the ones who do the work of the ministry wherever they are.
They serve up God's grace, mercy, love and wisdom on a platter.

Look at what Eve did when she looked at that tree, when she took her thought life off of what God had said, that tree that the Father told Adam and her not to even get involved with.

She got involved with that thinking and the enemy pumped her up saying, "Girl you are so right God is just jealous and He don't want you to be you."

And she took what she perceived and felt was good into her body and spirit.
It sounded good didn't it?
But what did Father say?
Look at that closely because fame, materials and glitter can look like it came from God on the surface but it can be man made.

Some old theory man done made up.

Man made is temporary.
You want creator made.
Man's understanding is limited, God's wisdom is infinite.

Eve took in what she perceived and felt was right.
Then what did she do?
She passed that mess on to Adam and he passed it on down to the rest of the family.
Putting the family in a position to be bound.

That's what we do, we take our culture and all of our wrong and half information and we pass it on to other people.

We meditate on nonsense that isn't edifying to our own soul or others and there are far more important tasks at hand.

I watched a television show where a 14 year old girl was just shattered with a broken heart over a breakup with an 18 year old boy.
This child was shattered because she lacked wisdom.
What an 18 year old boy is saying sounds good to a 14 year old girl.

We know that it ain't no good, but a 14 year old girl doesn't know that yet, she doesn't have that knowledge.
What he offers her is attractive and it makes her feel a certain way.

How many of you know that an 18 year old can't run that game on a 54 year old woman?
He shouldn't be able to anyhow.

What I want you to know is that if you are happy this is not for you, keep being happy.

But if you know in your heart that you are struggling with being happy for someone else, I want you to look at why that is.
That fake I'm rooting for you stuff and when they win you want to say, Oh my God not her!

We want to take that God today.
You want to be really blessed and there is no being blessed outside of loving other folks.

You do know that God loves you, He knew you before He laid the foundation of the world.
He knew you.
God is not a respecter of people or their accomplishments.
Honey, if you pick up a book and read it you can get revelation too!

But you can't hear while sipping on hater aide, you can't hear while hating your self.

Jesus came to heal all of that up, you think the grass is greener until you get over the fence be happy with what you have, and where you are at right now and God can move you.
Sow a seed and God will meet your need.

Don't envy.
Love and Pray and lean not to your own understanding but acknowledge God in all of your feelings, perceptions, thoughts and ways and He will surely direct your path.

It's His path that leads to true success.

You can have it too!
Come to God with your requests.

LOVE Y'ALL




But GOD!
Sent The Word!
Jesus.